Last year my oldest boy left for college(I have four bsons)and that was a transition...my second oldest had left for the military the previous year, and this year, my third is getting ready to leave for college, too...the oldest has been home for the summer, so, they will both be leaving to go to school(the oldest back to school) at the same time...well, we just came to the very difficult decision to have my youngest boy go live with his father(he is going to be 16 and seems to really need his dad now)...he is SO unhappy here..tons of reasons I won't go into now, but he is a real home body and has no real friends to speak of...and now all of his brothers will be gone. He has a younger step bro at his dad's whom he really loves and gets along with...and when he is there he attends youth group(something he refuses to do here) as a matter of routine...and he is just happier and more upbeat. But, am suddenly facing going from three boys highschool through college age being here to none. And, my husband works out of town often, so it will be me and the babies alone...and, I will suddenly have all of the household responsibilities single handedly...I am just overwhelmed even *trying* to process all of this...I walk into my sons room and see his bed and start crying...even though I know it is best for him. I have been THE primary caregiver for these boys their entire lives...it is so hard to let go and let his dad be the primary parent. I really don't know *how* to do this! 
Source: http://forums.adoption.com/foster-parent-support/406182-having-hard-time-today-ot-sorta.html
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